Three Ideas...

A situation that has defined my life is my parents divorce. Although this did happen when I was six years old , it greatly shaped my life. Not knowing what it is like to live with two parents at a time is different, but that is not a bad thing. I have an amazing bond with my mom and she is the strongest person I know. She has been a great role model and has helped shape me into the person I am today. 

Another situation that has defined my life is my love of volleyball. Volleyball is one of the best team sports and you have to rely on every other person on the floor to do their part. This has helped me to hold my own and be confident in myself as a person. Volleyball is also a great way to meet friends. Some of the people I trust the most are my teammates. Volleyball is also a sport where you grow with your teammates and coaches.  We all grow as one and we progress together.  This has helped me become a more patient person and understanding of other people. 

The last situation that had defined my life is college.  College has made me a more independent person and has helped me meet lots of different people. It has made learn to think on my own and manage my time for the better.  College has made me a lot more responsible and has made me realize I'm more of an adult now more than ever. Being in college is definitely preparing me to be an adult and live in the real world. College is one of the best experiences of my life.